The Finishing Touches: Essential Accessories to Perfect Your Groom Style

Introduction: The difference between a suit and your wedding suit is entirely in the details. Accessories are where you inject personality, tie your look to the wedding theme, and ensure you look distinct from the groomsmen. Master the following three key items, and your formal wear will transition from an outfit to a genuine style statement.

1. The Tie: Texture and Knot

For a wedding, your tie should feel substantial. Materials like silk, grenadine, or a subtle wool-silk blend add instant sophistication.

• The knot should match the collar and the formality of the event; a Half-Windsor is reliable and elegant for most occasions.
• Remember, the tip of your tie should just brush the top of your waistband or belt buckle.

2. The Pocket Square: The Rule of Contrast

Your pocket square should complement your tie through color, pattern, or texture, but never exactly match it. Think of it as painting a picture, not duplicating a color.

• If your tie is patterned, choose a solid square (or a square with a minor, contrasting pattern).
• A crisp white linen square in a classic straight-edge fold is the ultimate choice for black-tie formality. For a more relaxed wedding, use a softer silk fold for added volume and flair.

3. Cufflinks: Personalizing the Sleeves

4. The Ascot Tie: A Touch of Classic Elegance

 

For a truly distinctive and formal daytime look, or a dash of vintage charm, consider an Ascot tie. This wider necktie is traditionally worn tucked into a shirt, creating a voluminous, elegant drape.

• Ideal For: More formal daytime weddings, garden parties, or grooms looking for a unique, sophisticated alternative to a traditional tie.

• Pair With: Often worn with a wing-collar shirt or a classic point-collar shirt, peeking elegantly from the unbuttoned top.

 

Cufflinks are a small but mighty detail that requires a French (double) cuff shirt. Your choice allows for deep personalization.

• They can be formal (simple gold or silver), sentimental (engraved with initials or the date), or playful (a subtle nod to a shared hobby).
• Crucially, they should complement any other metal you are wearing, such as a watch or belt buckle.